- THE ART OF SELLING.
Selling is a delicate art. Any sign of weakness and you
would lose the prospect instantly. Now just like seduction, and the seductive
process, selling most often borders around the things you don’t say.
To be a true sales-man you must be formless. In the sense
that you must be able to adapt yourself into various moods, visions, and Ideals and you must do it naturally.
There’s really only one word. One word which would encompass
all the ideals of what it takes to sell. That word is Empathy.
If you’re no stranger to direct response marketing; you’d
agree with me that getting into the hearts of your prospects is far more
important that seizing their minds. You must rid your selling game of your
Ego---and all its weakness.
Now in direct-response marketing: There is a process: that
involves about 67secs of writing and as much as 24hrs of research (in some
cases). It’s the research that gets the sale because no matter how good a
writer you are, you must acknowledge that it’s not about you.
It’s about passing the big Idea with clarity.
When I first started out direct response, enthusiasm got the
better of me, and so I wasn’t sending any message other than my
over-zealousness and a clear reason why I shouldn’t be paid any attention.
To get attention you must be fully involved as opposed to
being aloof.
If you ever find yourself not selling as you wish; check the
relevance (the dream, the idea, the tech) you’re selling. Then check the
clarity next. You need to take the prospect out of the dark into the light, but
you must guide him every step of the way.
The point of research and testing in direct-response
marketing, especially when it comes to lead generation, is to walk the dreaded
path first then inspire action later. You cannot mix it up because it won’t
work.
The art of selling is transmuting desire across various
media. Whether it be: Script (as in copy-writing) word of mouth, or video (as in
VSLs). The same rules apply: show care, portray relevance, add proof and
inspire action.
Never ever forget to inspire action. More importantly---make
sure it’s the right action.
- Conclusion:
The way to any man’s head, is through his heart. Don’t waste
time arguing. Selling involves bypassing his thought process completely, you
must prevent his consciousness from coming alive. To do so, you must kill your
own ego.
Don’t be like me when I first started out my copy-writing
business: Letting your own goals get to your head, can be detrimental to
selling. People can sense your selfishness a mile away. They won’t succumb to
anything after they do.
So in essence: Be empathic, be relevant, be selfless, and
you will sell anything.
yeesh
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